Mistakes happen because we are not perfect human beings. Sometimes, we make choices that are less than ideal and that’s ok. We were created to learn from them, deal with the consequences, and be resilient.
I know, sometimes its harder to deal with the mistake because of its severity. I understand. But I’m here to tell you that ALL mistakes are forgivable. Every single one of them. With forgiveness comes peace of mind and with peace of mind comes happiness.
So let’s talk about what you can do after you’ve made a mistake:
- Admit that you made the mistake (take responsibility), find out why it happened and makes adjustments for the future.
- Apologize immediately if there is someone else involved. Be authentic and sincere in your apology as this will help you both feel better.
- Forgive yourself. Release yourself from the burden of holding onto guilt for the mistake. This way you can move forward.
- Pray about it if this helps you address the situation.
- Stay positive. Keep your head held high and know this is not the end of the world.
- Remember that everyone makes mistakes….even the Pope. (Although I’m sure we won’t hear about it.) Every single human being makes mistakes.
- Learn from your mishap. What lesson(s) can you take away from this incident so you don’t do it again?
- Remember that your actions don’t define who you are unless you let them. Correct it if possible, dust yourself off and show your true character.
- Realize the mistake was actually a blessing in disguise. It may not be apparent at first but it may reveal itself in the future.
- Talk to someone objective and air out your feelings constructively.
Mistakes are a part of life so don’t take them too seriously (unless they warrant it). Your best approach is to learn from them, commit to not repeating them and be a better person in life.
Do you have a lesson you learned from a mistake you made in the past? Hope you’ll share your story with us. 🙂
Love and Blessings,
Coach Dina Blas
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Thanks for sharing this 10-step process! Love the graphic!
Vanessa,
Thank you! Glad you liked the list.
Take care,
Dina
I just love your post. Very interesting information.
Patricia,
Glad you loved the post. 🙂
Blessings,
Dina
Hi Dina,
My favorite thought about mistakes is this: “The worse the mistake, the less likely you are to ever repeat it!” We learn a lot more from a mistake than from something you have always done the right way!
And, I thought I was wrong once, but I was mistaken….
Seriously; forgiveness of oneself is the most important way we can move forward and profit from our mistakes.
Enjoyed your post-
Lianda
Lianda,
Thank you for stopping by. I love your favorite thought, it definitely is true. 🙂
Have a great evening!
Dina
Oh Boy! I could write a book. One of the most difficult personal challenges is realizing the mistake. At the time, it seemed like a viable choice/solution then that sinking feeling sets in, you know the one that says, What just happened? Followed by how the heck am I going to get out of this one? Dina I really like the idea that there is a take away from all mistakes. I’ve had a few bad experiances recently. Once the after shock wore off I found talking it out helpful but also finally coming to grips I had my self to blame, then reaching way down and finding the courage to fix it. I think that happens when you just get tired and decide to make a stand to move forward. Not all situation can be fixed but we can make the most out of what’s left and do better. Idk sometimes I’m kind of proud when I worked out my dilema usually thanking friends for their insight along the way. The experiance of working through an ordeal/mistake can be just what was needed to appreciate my life and those in it. Guess that’s what helps brings change. 2 cents 🙂
Awesome Tips!
Gin,
Your efforts to continue to grow as a person is amazing. The hardest thing for a person to do is admit that they are wrong. It takes courage to do this. 🙂 So glad you’re here and sharing. 🙂
Take care,
Dina